THE INTENTIONAL MARRIAGE · BOOK + ASSESSMENT
Build a Marriage That Lasts—On Purpose
Discover your strengths and growth areas with the Marriage Health Profile assessment. Build deeper connection with our book, The Intentional Marriage, by Bryan and Stephanie Vignery.
What Brings You Here?
A next step for your relationship. A ministry resource for your church.
Strengthen Our Marriage
Whether you feel connected, stuck, or somewhere in between, start with insight and practical tools for growth.
Find Our Next StepBring This to Our Church
Explore Christ-centered teaching, marriage weekends, and resources that help your community keep growing together.
Explore Ministry PartnershipsMEET BRYAN & STEPHANIE VIGNERY
A Shared Life. A Shared Calling.
We have been married since 2003, and we believe a strong marriage is built through the everyday choices to grow, take responsibility, and turn toward one another.
Through The Intentional Way, we bring together Christ-centered teaching, counseling and coaching, and practical relationship tools to help individuals and couples move forward with intention.
Bryan is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (LCPC) and has been in private practice since 2005. Together, we wrote The Intentional Marriage: A Guide to Building Love That Lasts to help couples put meaningful growth into practice.
Rooted in Christ
Biblical truth shapes how we understand identity, responsibility, and love.
Growth Starts With Me
Recognize the beliefs, wounds, and reactions you bring into your relationship.
Connection Takes Practice
Turn understanding into everyday habits of listening, responding, and repair.
Choose Your Next Step
How Do You Want to Grow Your Marriage?
Whether you need guidance, breakthrough, or a place to start—there’s a clear path forward.
Marriage Health Profile
See your current strengths and growth areas through a Christ-centered, non-diagnostic Profile, available for individuals or couples.
Book & Audiobook
Discover practical, Christ-centered guidance to strengthen connection and build love that lasts. Available in print, digital, and audiobook formats.
Marriage Courses
Choose a practical next step designed to strengthen communication, connection, shared purpose, and lasting habits in your marriage.
Marriage Counseling
Personalized guidance to help you navigate conflict, rebuild trust, and grow together with clarity, direction, and intentional support moving forward.
Marriage Intensives
A focused, high-impact experience designed to create lasting breakthrough and real momentum in your marriage in a short amount of time.
Marriage Conferences
Bring a powerful, Christ-centered marriage experience to your church or event through teaching that is practical, engaging, and transformational.
Most Marriages Don’t Break… They Drift.
Most couples don’t wake up one day disconnected.
It happens slowly—
through unresolved conflict, emotional distance, busy schedules, and patterns that go unspoken.
And before you know it, you’re living side by side… but no longer deeply connected.
You don’t have to stay stuck in that pattern.
👉 Choose Your Next StepExperience a First Step
See the assessment, sample our book, and try a simple reflection today.
See the Marriage Health Profile
Preview the assessment and the kind of strengths and growth areas it helps you explore. This image is a preview, not your personal result.
Start With a Free Chapter
Get a feel for our Christ-centered approach before choosing the full book. Request the free chapter through our complimentary signup.
A Reflection to Try Today
Think of a recent moment of disconnection. Ask yourself: What was I feeling? What did I need? What is one response I can choose that supports connection?
Write your answers privately. If you share them, take turns listening with curiosity before trying to solve anything.
Prefer to listen? Explore the audiobook.
What Couples Are Experiencing
“Great value of content, but also the opportunity it created for us to slow down and be intentional in our marriage. This experience will impact our relationship in many ways as we continue to process what we learned and apply it in our everyday lives.”
— Luke & Canda
FOR CHURCHES, MINISTRY LEADERS & EVENT HOSTS
Help Your Community Build Marriages on Purpose
Bring Bryan and Stephanie’s practical, Christ-centered approach to your church or gathering—and give couples a path to keep growing after the event.
Marriage Weekends & Workshops
Explore teaching and guided reflection that help couples recognize patterns, take responsibility, and practice deeper connection.
Small Groups & Resources
Use the book, assessment, and marriage resources to support ongoing conversations and personal application.
Speaking & Ministry Conversations
Tell us about your audience, your goals, and the kind of gathering you are planning. We can discuss a next step that fits.
Planning an event? Share your location, possible dates, expected attendance, and what you hope couples will take away.
Ask About a Ministry PartnershipWays to Keep Growing
Continue building your marriage with practical resources you can use at your own pace—through courses, challenges, and intentional teaching.
The 10-Day Intentional Marriage Challenge
A simple, practical challenge to help you reconnect, build intentional habits, and strengthen your marriage one day at a time.
The One Relationship Series
A Christ-centered series designed to help couples understand marriage, grow spiritually together, and strengthen their connection through intentional living.
Building Your Marriage to Last
A self-paced course to help you move from an average marriage toward a thriving, intentional relationship with practical tools you can use every day.
Questions Before You Begin?
Find a starting point that fits you, your marriage, or your ministry.
Can I start on my own?
Is this only for struggling marriages?
How does faith shape your approach?
Where should we begin: the assessment or the book?
Does the assessment replace counseling?
What can our church or group host?
How can we invite Bryan and Stephanie or request an interview?
Start Building Your Marriage—On Purpose
You can keep doing what you’ve been doing and hope things change… or you can take a step toward something different.
Your next step is right in front of you.
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