The Baggage Exchange — Letting God Heal What You Brought Into Marriage

Marriage doesn’t fix you—it reveals you. Discover how Christ can heal the wounds, fears, and patterns that followed you into marriage.

Three days. Scripture-centered. Completely free.

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WHAT YOU CARRY MATTERS

Most marriage conflicts begin deeper than the issue in front of us.

Past wounds, hidden fears, unmet needs, and patterns of self-protection quietly shape how we communicate, trust, and connect.

This devotional will help you stop blaming, become aware of what your reactions reveal, and invite Jesus into the places only He can heal.

God does not expose us to shame us. He reveals what is hidden so He can heal and restore us.

YOUR 3-DAY JOURNEY

What You’ll Discover

Each day includes Scripture, a focused devotional, reflection questions, and a guided prayer.

DAY 1

Marriage Doesn’t Fix You—It Reveals You

See marriage as a mirror God can use for growth, grace, and transformation.

James 1:23–25

DAY 2

The Baggage Exchange

Recognize how old wounds and fears can show up in your present relationship.

Matthew 11:28–30

DAY 3

Making the Exchange

Move from self-protection toward surrender, healing, and freedom in Christ.

Psalm 147:3

AN INVITATION FROM JESUS

“Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.”

Matthew 11:28 (NLT)

FROM THE INTENTIONAL WAY

Created by Bryan & Stephanie Vignery

Authors of The Intentional Marriage: A Guide to Building Love That Lasts, Bryan and Stephanie help couples build Christ-centered marriages through biblical truth, practical tools, counseling insight, and lived experience.

This devotional is designed to serve you first—not sell you something. Take the next three days, invite God into the honest places, and let Him begin the work only He can do.

You were never meant to carry it alone.

Begin The Baggage Exchange today and take one honest, hope-filled step toward healing.

Begin Day One