The Intentional Marriage Health Profile™

Discover What Is Really Shaping the Connection in Your Marriage

A warm, Christ-centered marriage assessment that helps you understand your current season, recognize your strongest area, identify your Primary Growth Zone, and take one faithful next step toward deeper love.

Marriage does not fix us. It reveals us.

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Start privately or choose the couple option and invite your spouse. Takes approximately 12–15 minutes. Secure and private by design.

Preview of the My Intentional Marriage website and personalized Marriage Health Profile report

See How It Works

What Is the Marriage Health Profile?

Bryan and Stephanie explain how the assessment provides a guided picture of your marriage’s current season and helps you recognize one faithful place to begin.

 

20+ Years Counseling Couples

Built from decades of counseling, marriage intensives, workshops, and real conversations with couples.

Thousands of Marriage Sessions

Created from the recurring patterns, strengths, and growth opportunities couples face in everyday life.

Biblically Grounded Framework

Combines emotional honesty, practical action, Scripture, prayer, grace, and Christ-centered growth.

The Intentional Marriage: A Guide to Building Love That Lasts book

Why This Is Different

More Than a Relationship Quiz

Generic advice can tell you what a healthy marriage should look like. The Intentional Marriage Health Profile helps you understand the specific strengths, patterns, and growth opportunities shaping your marriage today.

It is built on the same biblical principles and counseling framework found in The Intentional Marriage: A Guide to Building Love That Lasts. You do not need the book to benefit from the assessment, but it can become a companion resource as you continue growing.

Your report is designed to encourage honest awareness without shame—and give you a clear place to begin.

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What You Will Receive

A Personalized Path for Practical Growth

Your report gives you clear insight without reducing your marriage to a number or using a score to define you.

Marriage Profile

Understand the season your marriage is currently in and what it means for your next stage of growth.

Marriage Health Score

Receive an encouraging snapshot of your marriage health, designed to create clarity rather than shame.

Primary Growth Zone

Identify the one area most likely to strengthen connection when you give it intentional attention.

One Faithful Step

Receive one practical action you can begin immediately, with Scripture, prayer, and next-step guidance.

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Included With Your Profile

Your Results Become an Eight-Week Growth Path

Your personalized report is a beginning, not a label. After you complete the profile and receive your results, The Intentional Marriage Growth Path helps you take one faithful, manageable step each week—on your own or alongside your spouse.

Weeks 1–2 · Notice and Strengthen

Begin With Awareness

Week 1 — Awareness Before Change
Notice patterns before trying to fix them.

Week 2 — Strengthen What Is Already Working
Recognize and protect the strengths already supporting your marriage.

Weeks 3–4 · Understand and Respond

Focus Your Growth

Week 3 — Understand Your Primary Growth Zone
Use your results to identify the most helpful place to begin.

Week 4 — Move From Reacting to Responding
Slow familiar patterns and practice a more intentional response.

Weeks 5–6 · Build Safety and Connection

Practice Intentional Connection

Week 5 — Create Emotional Safety
Make room for honesty, care, and understanding.

Week 6 — Practice Intentional Connection
Turn insight into a simple rhythm of meaningful connection.

Weeks 7–8 · Repair and Continue

Carry Growth Forward

Week 7 — Repair, Forgive, and Reconnect
Practice a healthy path back toward one another.

Week 8 — Build Your Continuing Growth Plan
Choose the rhythms that will help you keep growing with intention.

Each week includes: a brief teaching, Scripture, prayer, personal reflection, a practical 15–20 minute exercise, and clear Individual and Couple applications.

You can move through the Growth Path on your own or alongside your spouse—without comparing scores or using the results as labels. When you are ready to begin, choose the individual or couple starting point below.

Choose the Right Starting Point

Begin in the Way That Fits Your Marriage

You do not have to wait for your spouse to be ready before you begin growing. Start privately—or choose the couple pathway and invite your spouse into the same conversation.

Start Privately

Begin With My Own Profile

Complete the assessment honestly and privately. Receive personalized insight into your experience, your strongest area, your Primary Growth Zone, and your next faithful step.

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Grow Together

Invite My Spouse

One spouse can begin, then send a secure invitation. Each spouse completes the assessment privately. When both finish, the combined report reveals shared strengths, perception gaps, and opportunities to grow together.

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Simple, Private, and Personal

How It Works

STEP 1

Choose Your Assessment

Select the individual or couple starting point that best fits your current season.

STEP 2

Answer Honestly

Complete the assessment privately in approximately 12–15 minutes. There are no perfect-marriage answers.

STEP 3

Receive Your Report and Growth Path

Review your personalized report, identify the place to begin, and continue through eight weeks of Christ-centered, practical growth.

A Fuller Picture of Marriage Health

What the Assessment Explores

These categories work together to reveal strengths, connection patterns, and opportunities for intentional growth.

Connection

Communication
Emotional connection
Intimacy
Prayer

Repair & Safety

Conflict
Trust
Forgiveness
Baggage

Shared Direction

Spiritual unity
Identity
Purpose
Commitment

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Bryan and Stephanie Vignery, creators of The Intentional Marriage Health Profile

The Intentional Way

Meet Bryan & Stephanie Vignery

The Intentional Way was created to help couples build love that lasts through biblical truth, emotional honesty, and practical growth.

Bryan is a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor who brings more than 20 years of experience helping couples identify the deeper pattern beneath the presenting issue and move toward meaningful change.

Stephanie brings warmth, tenderness, forgiveness, emotional safety, and practical hope—helping couples receive insight without shame and turn it into everyday action.

Together, their voices shape an assessment experience that is warm, direct, grace-filled, and grounded in real marriage formation.

Christian Leader Endorsements

Trusted Across Churches, Counseling, and Ministry

“If you want a marriage that lasts, not just survives—get this book.”

Clint Sprague
Lead Pastor, LifeMission Church

“This isn’t just a book to read—it’s a process that can reshape your heart, your mind, your habits, and your marriage.”

Micah LaCerte
Host, SoulFit TV; Founder, Hitch Fit

“Christ as the only sure foundation... practical, biblical tools to build something that actually lasts.”

Daniel S. Chrystal
Attorney, CEO, Author

Questions Couples Ask

Frequently Asked Questions

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You Do Not Need a Perfect Marriage to Take an Intentional Next Step

Choose the assessment that fits your season. Discover your Marriage Profile, identify your Primary Growth Zone, and take one faithful step toward deeper connection.

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