We Didn’t Write This Book Because We Have a Perfect Marriage

We wrote it because we know what it feels like to struggle, drift, react emotionally, miscommunicate, and wonder how two people who genuin...

The Intentional Way… where better doesn’t happen by accident.

Your marriage isn’t struggling because of one big...

The Intentional Way… where better doesn’t happen by accident.

Not everything you feel like quitting… is something you’re supposed to walk away from.

We live in a culture that constantly tells you:...

The Intentional Way… better doesn’t happen by accident.

You don’t fall out of love—you fall out of pursuit.

Here’s a marriage challenge for you today…

This is one of the most common things I he...

Here’s a mindset challenge for you today…

Stop trusting every thought you have.

This is The Intentional Way… where better doesn’t happen by accident.

Some Thoughts Feel True… But Aren’t

Some of ...

And slowly, without realizing it, you stop pursuing each other.

If you’re not intentionally moving toward your spouse, you are unintentionally drifting away from them.

What It Looks Like

• Talking
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It’s not a knowledge problem—it’s a belief problem.

Have you ever reacted in a way you knew wasn’t right… and then wondered, Why did I do that again?

You already know better.

So why does it keep ...

There’s a difference between feeling something… and being ruled by it.

Most people don’t struggle because they have emotions.

They struggle because their emotions have them.

Anger rises—and they re...

WHAT ARE YOU BECOMING “AT ONE” WITH?

Addiction, Lies, and the Power of Atonement

Addiction often begins with agreement with a lie.

Before there is addiction, there is often a belief.
Before there i...

Marriage Appreciation Exercise

Purpose: To strengthen connection, gratitude, and emotional closeness in your marriage.

Instructions

Take a few quiet moments on your own to reflect on your spouse...